I am getting beatin’ up tommarow!?
April 9, 2010 by
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This girl in class told me i have change my whole outfit or else she will beat me up. I dont have any new shoes, I have to get a new jacket to wear ( i Love the jacket i always wear),Cut my hair,Paint my nails,print out a picture of a skirt i like( I dont have a skirt), ETC. sure i can do it over the weekend, But she wants it a ll done by Tommarow. She beat up one of my friends, and now i am scared. i dont want to tell on her because she will hate me (I have known her since Preschool) and dont know what to do!
PLEASE HELP! I FELL LIKE I AM GOING TO CRY!
She talked to me about it, But never did. I went to school at just ignored her. Thanx for all your help. I wish i could give you all 10 points.
stand for what u think not what she thinks or what she wants…but if she is big, i advise you oto run when u see her coming.
Maybe you should tell the principal
oh my god! she’s doing this because of ur clothes? thats stupid well try this cut some jeans into a skirt like kind of thing or capris and maybe dye ur hair a certain color or maybe u should just run away to the mall tomorrow and get clothes then come back!
dont go to school. JUST KIDDING, that would be pathetic. just avoid her and if she confronts you tell her to back the fuck off
Don’t worry about what she says about your appearance. If you do what she says today she might just threaten you about something else tomorrow. Please report the threats to your teacher, counselor, and/or principal. Maybe you can ask a parent or neighbor to pick you up right after school so you don’t have to hang around that girl. She’s in the wrong, not you!
Additional: Jinx has the right idea. Please get adult help on this one.
oh my god girl! you dont have to please everyone. Why can’t SHE change herself instead? so tell on her so the whole world will know how childish she is and she’d startwailing how she wish she oculd jsut die…
or else do waht i do to stpid girls like that…beat them up first
Holy crap!! OK, first off, this girl needs some serious help. You’ve known her since preschool – has she always behaved like this? At best, it’s a serious control issue, and at worst…well, worst could be pretty bad. But frankly, honey, she needs to be seen by a shrink. NOW. This isn’t something you can take on by yourself, ok? She’s already proved herself willing and capable of violence – she NEEDS to be turned into an authrity figure. Report the threat to the principal, a teacher, or maybe best case a guidence counciller.
There is NO REASON for some other girl to dictate what you WEAR – and to enforce her will on others by violence is beyond wrong. I know crazy, honey, and that’s crazy. Certifiable. You can’t reason with the insane, you can’t talk to someone who’s truly violent. Get help from someone immediately, ok? Tell Mom and Dad or somebody in your household, especially if you want some backup when you go to the principal/guidance counciller/teacher. Somebody has to know this girl is hurting others.
Not many people have the guts to stand up to people like this. This is NOT someone you need on your side, not someone you need as your friend – but this is somebody you can help by GETTING her help. Doing so might be tough – but it sounds like it’s the right thing to do. Stand up for yourself, for the other people she’s hurt, and for the people she’ll hurt if you don’t do something to stop her. You can do it.
Wishing you lots of courage. I only wish there was more I could do. Good luck!
Do you have any idea what power you are going to give her once you show up wearing ANYTHING she told you?
NO ONE has the right to make someone feel inferior.
You need to decide right now what kind of person you are. Pretend you are seeing it in a movie, step outside of the situation. What would you be yelling at the TV if you were watching this situation? What would you be telling the girl (who is you) to do?
Stand up for yourself. Tell her to f*^%off. She’s not much of a friend, I don’t care if you’ve known her forever or just one week. If she swings at you, you need to stick up for yourself. Bruises will hurt for a while, but if you be her little puppy dog doing what she says, man oh man, that humiliation will be with you for life.
I’m not saying it will be easy, but stick up for yourself. Don’t give her the satisfaction of seeing you follow her orders. YOU ARE NOT HER DOG.
I was picked on in school and spent many years scared. I would suggest you FIRST try this peacefully by talking to the school authorities, princaple, teacher, etc., your parents. Even her parents, that’d surprise her. If your sincere peaceful efforts fail, ….. do what you do and if she has a problem with it and get’s physical PHUQ this Byhtch! LAY HER OUT WITH ALL YOU HAVE!!!! * But don’t kill ‘er, hehehe! * She may try to beat you up. You can’t stop her from trying. Just make sure and give her some hurtin’ to remember you by, know what I mean? Unfortunately, sometimes it’s the only way.
But it probably is NOT as bad as you think. I remember I ALLOWED myself to be picked on by NOT standing for myself. Most of our fear is mental. I KNOW THIS because I have been there
I WORRIED about it more than they cared about me. You see? If you make a stand and hold your ground she will see that. Bullies don’t want to bully those who dish back what they dish out. You might have to whoop her ass but you’d rather not 
Again PHUQ THIS BYHTCH!
If she forces you into a fight, give one to her. If you back down and allow yourself to accept this it will not be good for you in so many ways. I know it was not good for me. I have scars.
PHUQ THIS BYHTCH!
I truely do hope this helps you.
Who gives her the right to tell you how to dress. I have never heard of anything so ridiculous in all my life. You need some back up honey, the principal, the counselor, a teacher you can trust, or if nothing else a group if friends. Do not let her catch you alone until somone knows what is going on. I just can’t believe this kind of thing is happening to you. Don’t change a thing. Have you told your parents about this? Please do, maybe they have some more suggestions for you. Take care, sweetie and let us know how you are.
Don’t change just for her! She isn’t worth it! If she tries to get to you, just roll your eyes and say something along the lines of, “Yeah, I’m really sure you’re ACTUALLY going to do that.” It will be scary, but you’ll feel really good after the initial jitters go away! If she’s a really awful girl who you just wouldn’t be able to handle, then tell someone. If you have a lot of friends, or a few friends who are really big/tall, you could just stick to them the whole day. It will be harder for her to pick on you if you’re in a group. Good luck.